tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29635803.post3509424477433106494..comments2024-01-08T23:23:41.851-08:00Comments on Julia's Blog: Case Study II - Can A Live-In Relationship Make Space For More Than One Lover?Julia Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08846895945401962741noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29635803.post-18553968022093173462008-07-10T00:54:00.000-07:002008-07-10T00:54:00.000-07:00Durga,I am so sorry I did not see earlier. Well ty...Durga,<BR/>I am so sorry I did not see earlier. Well typically there are no solutions; only possibilities. Thanks<BR/>JuliaJulia Duttahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08846895945401962741noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29635803.post-71395911959449142862008-05-15T22:14:00.000-07:002008-05-15T22:14:00.000-07:00The conclusion had a flurry of questions! :).I am ...The conclusion had a flurry of questions! :).<BR/><BR/>I am also slightly unsure if it's OK to use those "must"s and "should"s when we are discussing about someone who is not us. We then are judging them by our standards. We then are not suggesting them the way to get out of their perceived problems, if indeed they have one, but also are compounding their problem with our injunctions. It is as if we have ready made solutions for each problem. Seems like the case of a hammer which perceives everything else in the world as a nail.Durgasankar Mandalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01055838952155000533noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29635803.post-1917265112554408392008-02-19T20:14:00.000-08:002008-02-19T20:14:00.000-08:00Hi Amrita,Thanks! It was a very sharp comment and ...Hi Amrita,<BR/>Thanks! It was a very sharp comment and very direct. I loved it. Lessons to learn from you, Amrita.<BR/>JuliaJulia Duttahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08846895945401962741noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29635803.post-19621412205951873782008-02-18T08:10:00.000-08:002008-02-18T08:10:00.000-08:00Marriage and relationship is about commitment. If ...Marriage and relationship is about commitment. If he can 't cope with that then he better not go into it.<BR/><BR/>Love is not being served a buffet dinner.Plie your plate with what 's on show.Amritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04887884977787790642noreply@blogger.com